Thoughts From Your Child

Every night I mean to write a new blog post but we are knee deep in nesting mode over here and I somehow have found myself preferring to organize closets to sitting here and writing.  Last time around I never really had huge nesting urges but it's coming on strong this time.  I'm talking organizing and reorganizing all of our closets and drawers, Home Depot trips, spackling, painting walls, refurbishing furniture, the whole nine yards...and really all of those things are activities I would have sworn I'd never do before now.  Even Ryan is joining in on the fun...but his nesting style has more to do with what kind of new TV we need for our Super Bowl party.  ;)

For now I don't really have any photos to share, mostly because I don't think pictures of new plastic bins in closets are really that thrilling to anyone except OCD sufferers and 8 month pregnant women.  I did, however, want to share these "thoughts from your child" that my dad sent me at Christmas time.  I love it, and think there's so much truth in every line. 

Before having kids I always imagined I would be very strict, almost to the degree of being harsh.  After having Lyla I surprised myself with the gentleness I felt towards her.  I was just so overcome by the sweet innocence and preciousness of her and babies in general.  But these tiny people are smarter than a lot of us give them credit for, and discipline and boundaries are so very necessary for them.  I love the balance this list has of letting kids be kids and not expecting perfection, yet stepping in as a parent and providing boundaries when necessary. 

Hope you enjoy!

- K

Animals are Assholes

I'm sorry for the language, but can we just be honest with ourselves for a second?  There are about a million and two causes out there inundating my social media about these "Pitiful Pooches" and "Krestfallen Kitties", and I'm calling your bluff.  Animals are assholes.

Seriously.  They are expensive.  They are loud.  They are dirty.  They have zero regard for their human counterparts, pooping and peeing anywhere they please without the slightest hint of remorse.  They bark and meow in the middle of the night, just to check in, make sure you know they're still there.  And then, after all that, they demand treats at all hours of the day.  As if they've actually done anything remotely worthy of a reward.

I can't remember the last time I sat down and actually had my lap to myself.  Or a pillow to myself for a single night's sleep.  I don't know what it's like to walk through the house without some kind of critter wrapping themselves around my ankles and tripping me, and not a single pair of black pants is still black 5 minutes after putting them on.

But, just when I think I've had enough and I've written off ever having another animal again...they curl up next to me, the warm piles of fur with those sad puppy dog and puss in boots eyes, and all is forgiven. 

Damn it. 

- K

Somebody's Turning 2

I cannot even wrap my brain around how fast this past year has gone but somehow we are just 2 weeks away from Lyla's second birthday.  Instead of dwelling on the bittersweetness of another year come and gone (which I'm sure will hit me eventually), I've thrown myself into birthday party planning. 

Last year we flew back to Denver for Lyla's first birthday and had the best time with all of our family and friends.  (Will you just look at this little baby doll we had back then?!)  This year we are staying put so it will be a bit smaller, but I think it will be even more fun with Lyla's new found appreciation for presents, sweets, and tearing wrapping paper to pieces.  We're going back and forth between getting her a pony or a Range Rover power wheel.  Kidding!  ;)

Since the party is so close to Valentine's day and I'm a sucker for all things girly I decided to go with a Valentine's theme.  I've done a lot of Instagram, Pinterest and Etsy research in all my spare time and I can't wait to get it all put together for her big day! 

Here are some of my inspirations:

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one - image from Instagrammer @amandarydell.  Her feed is gorgeous, so colorful and fun!
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And now that Ryan's seen all of these glittery images he's sure this party will be his worst nightmare.  ;)

- K

Potty Training Confessionals

So... Potty training: 1, Kassi/Ryan: 0

Last week I mentioned that we were starting the potty training process.  I talked about being emotional about the whole thing, but I was actually really excited to get started because Lyla is typically very good with direction and responds really well to rewards - particularly chocolate and donuts.  I was truly excited to see her successfully check one more milestone off her list.

We've read all of the Baby Wise books, and chose to go with Potty Wise for our adventure, and more specifically the progressive method which should typically take about 2-3 days.  Well, after the first day and some very slight progress I was left feeling a little unsure.  By the end of day 2, without going into too many details, I was feeling even less confident about the whole thing, and very sure this wasn't going to be a 2 or 3 day process.

When the morning of the third day was going far worse than the days prior I made the decision to stop and try again at some point in the future.  It was an emotional and confusing decision because I hate to quit anything, and one of the hardest parts that I think comes with parenthood is making these decisions and not really knowing at the time if it really is the very best for your child or not.

The next morning I woke up feeling so much better and just at peace with the decision I made.  I know at some point we will both be ready and it will just click.  But this is the thing - this girl right here? 

Every single one of the days of her 23 months of life have been my brightest.  There's been hard one's for sure, but every night I go to bed with a smile on my face, thinking about her and all we'd done that day.  I am painfully aware that our days of just her and I are becoming more and more limited and I just can't reconcile the idea of making these last 53 days (but who's counting, right?) anything but carefree and joyful.

So for now, pass the diapers.  Please and thank you. 

- K

The Final Cut - A Christmas Recap: Part 4

Christmas night my dad, stepmom, brother and sister came into town, so we had a second Christmas morning the day after, even though most of the wrapping paper was already ripped off.  Lyla had a hard time understanding why there were still presents under the tree with Dora wrapping paper, or why she couldn't/shouldn't rip those open too.

Lyla loved having more family around, and the extra presents didn't hurt.  I think she liked her Hug Me Elmo, but her favorite was the cute handmade Colorado hat.  Ryan and I already had our own, and they're pretty amazing.  The mini version was too cute, and she pretty much refused to take it off.  She doesn't really know it, but she's a Colorado girl at heart.

The time with family went too fast as always.  I actually didn't feel very well, so we kept it pretty low key with mostly lots of eating and a shopping trip or two.  And Despicable Me 2 on a constant loop.

Lyla loved her auntie Kate and even learned to say her name crystal clear, which is saying something because she hasn't gotten anyone's name just right up until then.  She cried for a good 5 minutes in her crib when she woke up from her nap to have them all gone.  It makes my heart hurt to see her sad.  I tried explaining to her that part of life is missing people and it actually makes getting to see them even sweeter.  I don't know if it really sunk in.  ;)

They left New Year's Eve, the same day Ryan had surgery, so the day was a little chaotic.  Definitely not our best NYE, but the next day was a New Year.  The year Lyla turns 2 and we add another little girl to our family.  I have a feeling 2014 is going to be a pretty special year.

- K

 

Potty Training Eve

There's a new sort of holiday going on at the Chapman household.  It's officially Potty Training Eve, and I'm not really sure how I feel about it.  Lyla has been showing all "the signs" for a while now, and I even had "potty training" penciled in on my calendar for December, then cancelled it when the thought of little girl panties in my laundry brought me to tears.  Am I the only freak show mom that can't even handle getting rid of diapers because it means their baby is growing up?  Sigh.

Anyways, when my dad was in town we went to this baby boutique where there was a stack of potties on the ground.  Lyla waltzed right over and sat right down like she knew exactly what those things were for, so my dad bought one and brought it home.  Later that night she went over, sat on it and peed in her diaper.  All signs point to she's ready. 

Tonight Ryan came home early so we could make a big, exciting trip to Target for big girl panties (WAHHH), Dora pull-ups and treats galore.  Tomorrow's the big day.  Wish me and my emotions luck.  Oh yeah, and I guess Lyla too.

- K

Lyla's Christmas Eve Performance - A Christmas Recap: Part 3

Growing up I was always so shy.  I hated performing anything, got embarrassed easily, and I still absolutely hate any form of public speaking.  Ryan, on the other hand...I don't think he knows the meaning of shy.  Lyla certainly did not inherit my shy gene, and is happy to perform on cue at any time of the day, and even checks herself out in the mirror as she plays, or sings or dances.  The girl has some confidence.

Here's a little video of a Christmas Eve performance she threw together last second.  ;)

- K